Question from Jodi:
My daughter eloped due to pregnancy. Now they are wanting the ceremony and reception they missed the first time. They hope to do it with renewal of vows on their fifth anniversary. I think it seems inappropriate. Is this unusual? Thank You.
Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:
Hi Jodi. The Victorian etiquette experts would not approve of such a thing, but it is very common these days. Couples miss their wedding reception for a variety of reasons, and later throw a party in the form of a renewal of vows and wedding reception. Sometimes, the couple can’t afford the wedding the first time around, or they get married in another country without their family around. Sometimes there are multiple wedding receptions so family and friends can all participate in different parts of the country. Sometimes they elope, and later throw a party in the form of a wedding reception and a renewal of vows.
It is not inappropriate, nor is it unusual. Enjoy the party!
Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert
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