How Do We Have A Bridal Shower and A Baby Shower Within Five Months? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Lydia:

Our son and daughter in law to be are getting married in May and have  just surprised us on Christmas that they will be having a baby in July.  They live out of town and I have already started plans for a bridal shower.  I believe it is not in good judgement to combine both.  Some say invite 1/2 to a bridal shower and 1/2 to a baby shower.  I do not want to offend anyone.  This is such a happy time for all of us.  I, mother of the groom do not want to look like a jerk!   Please advise.

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Lydia, and congratulations on two such happy events.  I suggest that the bridal shower occur before the wedding, and the baby shower can occur AFTER the baby has been born. 

The bridal shower is actually the responsibility of the maid of honour who has the bridal party as her assistants.  Usually she works with the mother of the bride and groom to get a list of family members to invite to the bridal shower.  It is not considered proper etiquette for the family to host the bridal shower because it is improper for the family to ask for gifts for the couple.  I’m not sure how far away your son and future daughter-in-law live from you, but you should communicate with the maid of honour so there are no hard feelings.  The bridal shower should be held by a friend if the maid of honour lives too far away to host it for local family members.

Following proper etiquette, the bridal shower attendees should be the wedding party, the mothers of the bride and groom, sisters of the bride and groom, and the bride’s closest friends and/or coworkers.  This tradition has change over time to include the aunts and cousins of the bride and groom.  Some regions have larger bridal showers where all women invited to the wedding are invited to the bridal shower, but this is not proper etiquette. 

The bridal shower should take place 6 to 8 weeks before the wedding.  The wedding party and the mothers of the bride and groom should all have key tasks during the bridal shower.   For example, the mothers might look after the bridal shower games, while the bridal party looks after the food, etc.  Because the bridal party has a lot of expenses during the wedding process, it is a nice gesture for the mothers of the bride and groom to purchase the bridal shower favours.   

The baby shower does not have to take place before the birth of the baby.  It is easier for the guests to purchase gifts appropriate to a baby girl or baby boy, and the guests can meet both the husband and the baby at the baby shower.  This party can be hosted by anyone, usually non-family members, but family members can assist through taking care of baby shower favours and baby shower games.

I hope this answers your questions.  If you have other questions, please feel free to email again.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

?Flowers and Showers? in a multiuse bath tub soap container 3 piece set

This little gift set is bound to get all your guests bursting and bubbling with joy.

The recipient of this gift can enjoy a stylish and rich shower with this “Flowers and Showers” bath gel scented with floral aromas.

The package includes an elegant soap dish styled in Victorian fashion, a foam applicator and bath gel all backed in a display gift container with cute shower details in three hues green, blue and pink.

This looks just adorable and the size measures 5” x 2.5” x 5.5”.

ShowersNFlowers

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Baby Shower Favours from Kate Aspen

Baby Shower Favours

? Wanting to come out of the egg? Egg Timer for your kitchen in a special display gift case

This is just too perfect for a baby shower. The egg timer themed “Wanting to come out of the egg” is great for expectant moms nearing their due date as a practical reminder of the coming bundle of joy.

The product is shaped as an egg that is joined at the center and is spun to activate the timer mechanism between one minute to and hour. Coming in a clear cylindrical container, this whimsical timer is displayed from all angles.

People won’t will all enjoy this cute little gadget with its attention to details, all the little nuances on the label stickers on the egg will bound to have guests chuckling to themselves. The total size is about 3” X 3”. A white ribbon tied in around the container completes the package with a special tag that reads “for you”.

Egg Timer

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Baby Shower Favours

Extraordinary Favours for Baby Showers

Sometimes our friends get the shorter end of the stick. We bombard them with dull, lifeless and cliché gifts and yet they still manage to force a smile from their lips when in their minds they are thinking “Another baby bootie!” Your job as the hostess of the baby shower is to ensure that the party is successful and one of a kind. Choosing an original baby shower idea will most certainly lead you towards the path to success. If you baby shower has a theme, the favor can either be in line with the theme or be in a completely different genre – it all depends on you and how many risks you can stomach.

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Baby Shower Favours

Stray from the usual and indulge your pals in some baby literature and movies. With the baby theme in mind, purchase a sizeable collection of best-sellers that are related to the birth of a new born. Alternatively give your guests a heart-felt memorabilia in the form of your diary. If you have been chronicling the daily roller coaster emotions of the past nine months then make copies of your personal thoughts and share them with your buddies. Movies with babies will melt even the toughest heart – give your friends some teary movie moments. If your hubby is a mock Steven Spielberg then make your own home video and share it with your close associates. The gift can be wrapped in some bright colored cellophane with some huge bows and ribbons keeping the gift together or everything can be placed in some ABC nappies and tied together with a huge baby pin. The total cost of the gift is next to nothing yet the gift is priceless.

“If music be the food of love play on…” this famous quote from Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night is true a musical favor will enrich the fiery love between friends. Compile some popular baby music and give each guest. This sweet thank-you present will give them some entertainment after the festivities of the day. As a special addition to the music gift, add a video containing all the moments that you and your friend have shared – a definite winner! Accessories that can be added to this favor include candies, chocolates and cookies in the shape of CD’s. Place the compact disc in a personalized CD case which is in your buddy’s favorite color, and has their pet cartoon character. A variation of the music favor is instead of having songs that are about babies pick your friend’s favorite nursery rhyme. Customize the gift according to the lyrics of the rhyme. For example if it is Jack and Jill, place their gift in a personalized mini-pail.

Spoil your close companions with some jewelry of a unique kind. Collect some multi-colored birth stones and crystals and make some bracelets and necklaces. Use alphabet baby block cubes in order to spell out the name of your friend and make a matching necklace and place the jewelry in a bag made from some gingham organza or satin pouches. On the bags embroidery of the person’s initials could be done on top of a pacifier or baby rattler. If you would rather buy the jewelry buy your friends some stainless steel chains along with some crystal pendants of a teddy, pacifier or baby bottle. Select the pendant according to your friends’ individual styles and fancies. Place them in a dainty silver box filled with rose petals and matching ribbon to adorn the gift. Alternatively place the jewelry in a glass baby bottle that comes in a suave crystal design.   

The best favors are usually the ones that are very personal. If you and your friends are close then it follows that you share deepest and darkest secrets with them. Even after the stork has knocked on your door and delivered a bundle of joy, they will always be there as your pillar of strength, shoulder to cry on and baby sitters. The best way to maintain that unmatched relationship that you have is to give them a thank-you gift that comes complete with a box of tearful memories. Our friends are priceless and they require the best baby shower favors that we can find. Personal gifts are easier to make and they are the best way to trigger some more memoirs with our darling friends.

Baby shower favors – Truly one of a kind

Fabulous gifts are not easy to find and if you do find them they sometimes cost an arm and a leg. Window shopping is a way to getting the best favor at a bargain price. Plenty of cost effective ideas are available for those who want to show appreciation in an affordable way. Inexpensive ideas usually involve a lot of work and they require skill, right? Wrong! Anybody can be creative and even though the gift does not have a professional finish a lot of hard work and sweat would have gone into and that is the true essence of a gift.

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There are countless delicious recipes that can be tried in order to give the guests a sweet taste of satisfaction. Cookies are the simplest to make and they can be decorated with assorted icing, cream and they can be absolutely any favor. A good idea would be to bake different cookies for different guests. If you know that your friend goes weak in the knees when they think of double fudge chocolate chip cookies then bake them a tantalizing batch of them; this way each guest’s unique palate will be catered for. The shapes of the cookies could be cuddly teddies, funny clowns or cartoon characters and assorted baby related figures. To complement each cookie place some cookie cutters with the cookies. This unique idea will encourage your friends to spend more time in the kitchen baking cookies for their families. Place the cookies and cutters in an elegant customized mini glass jar in your buddy’s favorite color. Names or initials can be etched on each glass jar. This tasty favor is bursting with flavor!

If your friends are coffee and tea enthusiasts give them dashing tea and coffee favors. Your friends will enjoy miniature tea tins filled with exotic tea leaves from another continent. The mini cylindrical tins can be personalized with the recipient’s name and the date of the baby shower. For a more varied tea experience you can spoil your friends with a hamper filled with green tea, chamomile tea, and all other organic teas that are designed to rejuvenate one’s spirit. Alternatively if they are avid cup of Joe fans then fulfill their chicory cravings. Fill a giant porcelain coffee mug with some sachets of various blends of coffee and have your pal’s name boldly printed on the coffee mug. They will definitely enjoy drinking from a mug that is twice the size of a normal coffee mug. Have exotic teas and coffee from the Middle East, Africa and South America – the varying altitudes will guarantee a unique flavor and aroma.

Conception begins with a seed. Follow that concept and offer your guests a nonpareil baby shower favor experience by giving them seed baby shower favors. These timeless pieces can be the start of a memorable garden career. Select your friend’s favorite plant or flower seeds and place them in a tiny cuboid tin, flower holder, planter or even pail. The seeds can also be placed in custom designed sachets with the baby’s name and anticipated birth day printed on them. For a spur-of-the-moment twist give each guest instructions to only begin planting the seeds the moment the baby is born and watch the flower or plant grow as the baby also grows. Some accessories that can be added to the gift include garden tools such as shovels, forks and a pair of garden gloves can be personalized in the receiver’s favorite color and name. This unmatched baby shower favor idea will cause a stir and guests will be eager to find out what your next baby shower favor idea will be.  

If you find that your baking sills are completely non-existent then buy the cookies or invite your sisters or close cousins to come and help you bake-not everybody was given the craft of baking delicious cookies. Other ideas that employ the use of hands are photo frame favors; Paper Mache statues or hand made pottery figurines, favors that include home made gift bags and sewn attire. More terrific ideas can be found on the electronic yellow pages and they are only a click away – now you have no excuse for pathetic baby shower favor ideas.

Handbag Place Card Holders for Your Bridal Shower

Every girl needs a great handbag for every occasion! It’s a fact and a necessity of life in the modern world. These Handbag Place Card Holders are wonderful for all the females that come to your bridal shower.

OK, these are not real handbags or purses but they act as great favour ideas especially for a bridal shower. The handbag bridal shower favour is a small clear purse that can open and close. Displaying your favourite candies will be a delight for all of your guests to see.

At the same time that it is a favour for your colourful candies to be displayed it is a name card holder as well. The handles of the handbag are silver and they are close enough touching that a name card can be placed in between.

Bridal Shower Favours

I love this delightful and fresh idea of the Handbag Place Card Holders. They are one of a kind favours and something your guests will adore. On the favour a white ribbon is bow tied to create the best presentation on your tables. This addition to your female guests wardrobe will be forever changed, only in a cute and fun way!

Baby Hand Print Kit Is A Great Baby Shower Gift

A good childhood friend of mine, Joelle, is pregnant with her second child, a girl named Emily. Emily will be born in September and we just finished having a baby shower for her. My friend’s first child is a boy named Kevin, and when she got pregnant with a girl, she didn’t have anything girly. My friend decided to have another baby shower for only girly things, like dresses, pink blankets, etc… She did not need any of the basics like bottles, a crib, high chair, etc…

When Kevin was born, another girlfriend of mine bought this Baby Hand Print Kit for the baby shower. It was a great success because Joelle loves sentimental things and already was starting a collection of memories of her pregnancy and for her new baby boy.

After Kevin was born she placed his tiny hand into the mold and wrote his name on it and his birthday. She hung it on a wall in his room where it still is today. When he gets older and doesn’t want baby stuff in his room, she’s going to put it in his baby box. His baby box is a cedar box where all of his baby and childhood memorabilia will be stored. It will be nice for him to look through this box when he is older and find his baby handprint.

Anyway, my friend also bought the Baby Hand Print Kit for Joelle’s new baby, Emily. This has turned into a really nice tradition for Joelle and her children and she will probably purchase one with every child. I wish my mother had a handprint of mine when I was a baby. It would be nice to see how much my hand has grown.

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“Baby Is Brewing” Coffee Kit, Perfect Baby Shower Favour

Okay. So I know that the focus of this wonderful website is on weddings, however I would like to point out that this website has a lot of baby shower and wedding anniversary accessories. Also, I would like to add that the next celebration a couple shares after their wedding is the birth of their new child so it is clearly appropriate to also to include blogs about baby showers as well on this website.

 
One of my best friends growing up had her first son, Kevin, two years ago and is about to give birth to her daughter, Emily, in September. All of our friends were so excited when we heard the news about baby Kevin that we bought her mounds of baby boy clothes, toys, etc… She had a baby shower for him where she got all of the essentials (crib, stroller, high chair, etc…) as well as all the fun stuff (blue booties, soccer clothes, etc…).
 
Now that her daughter is about to be born, she threw herself another baby shower to collect girly things. She already had the crib and high chair, but she needed little dresses, pink blankets, pretty shoes, etc… Her shower was loads of fun. We played typical baby shower games like “prepare the bottle” and “toilet paper mommy’s belly”. When the party was over, she gave us all these "Baby is Brewing" Coffee Kit with Heart Scoops and Optional Personalized Tags  to show her appreciation.

I was so surprised when she gave us these favours because I was the one who introduced her to this site that sells wedding favours and baby shower favours. I was also pleasantly surprised that she picked the coffee favour because she knows that I love coffee!

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Baby Shower Favours from Kate Aspen

A great way to say thank you to your guests is with Kate Aspen baby shower favours. In Canada, there are various types of favours that you can give to your guests including candle baby shower favours, chocolate baby shower favours, personalized baby shower favours, and unique baby shower favours.

You can even make your own baby shower favours. Giving favours to your guests is great etiquette and they will be thankful for these inexpensive favours of appreciation. However, if you like to give truly unique baby shower favours, buy Kate Aspen Favours. Kate Aspen is the leading Canadian brand in Favours.

You can buy these tokens for your guests at Wedding-Favours.ca and CanadianBridal.ca.

Baby Shower Favours