How Do I Decorate My Wedding? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Rochelle:

Hi.  I’m getting married in Dec 2009 and wanted your advice on what theme is best with fuschia and off white.  We are thinking of having orchids. The groomsmen will wear white shirts with fuschia cravats and the bridesmaids will be in short fuschia dresses with a white border.  Should I have silver instead of white?  How do I dress the tables? I need ideas on what to have as a centerpiece?  Thanks

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Rochelle, and congratuations on your upcoming wedding.  Fushia and white sound like a great colour combination.  You could go with silver, but many silver colours look like grey, so it would depend upon what silver you chose. 

As for what theme, you could just have a colour theme of fushia and white.  Your choice of theme is usually generic, or specific.  Generic themes are like a colour theme, or you could also have an orchid theme.  If you wanted to have a specific theme, usually couples choose a wedding theme that reflects their interests and personality. 

Wedding table decorations are usually flowers, candles, sand, water, or food, in various combinations.  A lot depends upon how formal a wedding you are having, and what feel you are going for.  Tables can be dressed is lace overlays, table runners, table squares, etc.  Have you asked your reception site what they have available?  Most reception sites have a variety of choices for you to choose from, and for a cost, can bring in unique items based on your budget. 

If you look at all the categories on your right as you scroll down, you will see many posts talking about this subject, where you can get more ideas.  The shopping items at the top right also have lots of great ideas.  Check them out.  If you have further questions, feel free to ask.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

 

Wedding Table Decorations For A Destination Wedding – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Pascaline:

I am soooo confused…  I don’t know what to do for our wedding tables decorations…in regard to colours.  We love the mix of black, white and yellow.  My bridesmaid dresses are yellow.  I was kinda thinking of black or charcoal tablecloth with a wood type bamboo brown table runner and vases with yellow flowers and we are having a destination wedding so seashells and starfish.  I want it to be boyish and girlish. We love punk-rock style but still want to put lottttts of candles. What do you think?

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Pascaline, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  Black, white and yellow is a great colour combination.  The key to a wow factor is to have dark and light juxtaposed in a way that makes you notice.  Black tablecloths with a brown wood runner is dark on dark—works well, but does not create a wow factor.  Think white tablecloths with black table runners and black napkins, and yellow flowers.  That would pop!  Or, black tablecloths, with white table runners and napkins, and yellow flowers.  That also would really pop.  That does not mean that your idea of wood-type bamboo brown table runners is a bad idea!  It would look great on either white or black tablecloths, but would give the overall look a more subdued statement.  So, it depends upon what you like.

As for lots of candles, well, I think lots (and I mean lots) of candles creates a whole atmosphere in itself.  I love the idea of lots of candles.  You could have groupings of pillar candles for your centrepieces in varying heights to create a true statement.   Candles grouped at the buffet table, cake table, and so forth can continue the theme.  Candles are inexpensive (compared to other centrepieces) and come in a variety of colours to accent your table linens.  Whether you choose to sprinkle tea lights everywhere, or go more substantial with pillar candles, you cannot go wrong with candles. 

Check out these wedding collections.  They are very beautiful, and you might find the ‘scattered pearls’ collection or the ‘seaside allure’ wedding collection just what you are looking for.

These ideas should help you get to your final decision.  If you have further question feel free to ask.  If you are reading this and have some ideas of your own, feel free to add your comments below.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

 

 

 

How Do I Make My Own Wedding Reception Centrepieces? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Mandy:

Hi, I am trying to make wedding reception centerpieces myself.  Here’s the idea: small vase filled with water and glitter, with 1 flower in each.  Will the glitter sink, any ideas on floating glitter?  Thanks a lot.

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

water pearls.jpgHi Mandy.  What a lovely idea.  I believe you are right—the glitter will sink, but it really depends upon the way the manufacturer makes the glitter. 

This is not something that you can plan out in advance—you need to experiment.  There are different kinds of glitter, and you can even use silver confetti which be a little bigger, but depending upon the manufacturer, might float.  You will need to see how it reacts to being in water for a number of hours, as confetti might start to fall apart.  Again, depends upon the manufacturer, and how they make their product.  Saying that, go out to your local craft store, or dollar store, and see what you can find.  Then experiment.

Have you considered these Water Pearls for wedding table decorations.  Using coloured sand is also an option that you might want to consider.  There are also different kinds of confetti to choose from, so take a look at these great options. 

There are many great ways to create an inexpensive reception table centrepiece.  Good luck, and if you have further questions, feel free to ask.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

 

Will Red and Yellow Be Good Wedding Colours? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Charlene:

I was thinking about having red and yellow as my wedding colors, with an accent of orange. My wedding is in August, so I was thinking fall colors.  Will this color scheme work together? And what are the best shades of reds, yellows and oranges will work together without clashing?

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

dreamstime_1513126_1.jpgHi Charlene, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  Yes, red and yellow work really well together. Accents of orange are perfect with that combination.  Colours which are next to each other on the colour wheel (red, orange, yellow) are known as complementary colours.  This photo of a red and yellow colour scheme is accented with green and white, which is perfect for a winter wedding.  Accents of orange is more appropriate for an August wedding. 

When it comes to choosing your shades, the trick is to make sure they have the same undertone and saturation.  Basically this means that you want to have all your colour choices the same colour strength.  You don’t want to have pale yellow with bright red. The colours all need to be bold colours, or they need to be all soft colours. 

This photo blends pink and orange, which on first glance, most people would not put together.  But, notice both colours have the same strength of colour.  That is the trick to blending colours so they go together well.

Before you finalize your exact colour choices, consider what colour table linens you will have available to you.  This video I made on Wedding Colour Ideas explains how to put colours together.  Also, consider what wedding ceremony and wedding reception decorations you have available to you. 

Although wedding favours are a great way to thank your guests for attending, and to enhance your wedding theme, they can also add to the colour scheme of your wedding reception table. 

Put your whole wedding look together by choosing wedding invitations to reflect your colour scheme. 

Enjoy planning your wedding colours, and if you have further questions, feel free to ask.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

 

 

 

How Do I WOW My Guests On A Limited Budget? – Ask The Wedding Expert Answer

Question from Karen:

Hi, I’m getting married on  27febuary 2010 in a nice beach hotel in Mexico. Is going to be an outdoor wedding but not in the sand.  I’m looking for a wedding theme (unexpensive) but with a look of luxury.  I really love beach weddings but I don’t like the typical shells decor… what other options you recommend for decorating it?

It is going to be at night with a forward view of the beach.  I’ll love to have something that really wows people without expending a lot of money.  The hotel offers me white or beige table linens with golden chairs and that’s it.   Thanks.

reception table.jpgAnswer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Karen, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  I, personally, love destination weddings, but they DO have the side effect of limited choices in linens and decorations.

My first thought is to explore the option of a flower theme.  Flowers are much less expensive in Mexico (and other Carribean countries) than other places in North America, and they do give the feel of luxury.  Explore your flower options, and see what you can arrange.  With flowers that you can get there, you won’t have to bring so many things along with you to create the look that you want.

Ask your hotel what colour napkins they have available.  Also ask them if they have table runners.  If they have coloured napkins, you can use one napkin on the centre of each table as a table square to give yourself some colour. 

Basically you have white, beige and gold for your colour choices.  I’m not sure how "yellow" your gold chairs are, but let’s assume they are yellowy.  Both white and beige are neutral, so let’s concentate on the fact that you might have ‘yellow" in your decor.

As you can see from this photo, that white on white can look very spectacular with a nice pop of colour.  So if you have the choice of white linens, and white napkins, your ‘gold’ chairs with flowers in yellow, violet, purple, and pink could be very beautiful.

You could go with blue, yellow, and melon as another colour option.  This video I made on wedding colour ideas will help you with what other colours go well together.  

Because your decoration choices are limited by cost and the hassle of bringing it to Mexico, you might consider some sinamay mesh or tulle which is really a net fabric and quite light to transport.  You can use these fabrics to accent the head table or to add colour into your decor. 

Once you choose your colours, consider unique wedding favours to make a statement.  They can reflect your personality as a couple, and there are many great destination wedding themed wedding favours that don’t have the tradition sea shells.  I was at a destination wedding where all the guests were given small photo album wedding favours that allowed us to put our photos of the wedding and the trip.  It is a great keepsake that I keep on my fireplace mantel. 

Once you have decided on your colours and overall decor, it is important to find a wedding invitation to reflect your overall theme and look.  Whether you choose the destination wedding type invitations or go more subtle with a colour themed wedding invitation, you are sure to find something here.

I made this video on how to create a wow factor for your wedding which might give you some ideas. 

Good luck, and if you have further questions, feel free to email again.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

 

What colour combines well with turquiose?

Question from Genevieve:

What colour combines well with turquiose? 

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Genevieve, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  This video I made on choosing your wedding colours will be helpful for picking colours. 

You can go with tonal colour, choosing multiple shades of turquoise for a lovely subdued effect.  To make a greater statement, you could choose blue and/or green.  A bolder statement would be to pair turquoise with orange or melon.  If you want a triadic colour scheme, turquoise-voilet-yellow is the combination to wow your guests. 

When decorating with your colours, you might want to consider creating table runners or chair bows from organza or mesh. 

How Do We Decorate A Tent For A Wedding? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Damian:

My son Andy eloped, but we are going to have a wedding celebration in Madison, Wisconsin, USA. He and his new bride chose an outside location-we will have a tent with tables. I was looking for some ideas for decorating the tables with fabric. Also, some ideas about decorating the tent-Gennifer, the bride, wants white lights strung up. 

Thanks for any help you can provide-it’s scheduled for August 15th, 2009.

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Damian.  Congratulations on the upcoming wedding celebration!  When it comes to decorating the tables with fabric, there are many ideas.  The first thing is table cloths.  Then you can put a sheer or net tablecloth (think lace) overtop for added elegance.  You can also use a table square in the centre of the table (small or large), upon which the centrepiece can rest.  A more modern take on this is to use strips of fabric in the wedding colours as a runner across the table.  I’ve even seen the strips ‘woven’ in the centre since they run in two different directions. 

There are also chair covers, and you can wrap net fabric (in the wedding colours) around the chairs and tie a bow in the back. 

As for the tent, you have many wedding decoration choices.  White lights strung up are lovely, especially  loosely wrapped around organza or sinamay mesh to create that fairytale look.  Try a visit to your local chinese market for some white chinese paper lanterns.  They are inexpensive, and can be hung from the ceiling in rows to create a great  soft white light.  Another idea for the ceiling is to drape fabric across the ceiling in panels with the light above it.  The fabric will soften the light (you want a light thin fabric) and create a nice glow from the ceiling.  You could even do the ceiling panels all in white with the occasional panel in the wedding colours. 

Hopefully this will give you some great ideas, and you may even choose to incorporate a few of them together.  Good luck!

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert Answer

How Do We Arrange Seating For A Cocktail Wedding Reception? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Annette:

We are having a 7pm church ceremony arriving at the reception hall about 8:30pm.  Dancing will likely start about 10pm.  Food will be passed around by servers as well as some displayed on a table for self-serve.  Drinks will be served all evening.  We were planning on having 6 or 7 round tables with chairs interspersed with several cabana tables.  Do you have any suggestions for a reception without a sit-down dinner in terms of seating arrangements and table decorations?  We hadn’t planned on having assigned seating as we were hoping people would mingle and then find a spot to sit  when tired. 

Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Annette, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  You don’t say how many people you have attending. The guideline is that there is seating for 50%  to 60% of your guests at a cocktail reception.  If it is an older crowd, that percentage goes up to 70% – 80%.  Your reception site can give you guidance on where and how to set up tables. 

As for seating arrangements, you don’t have that at a cocktail reception as there aren’t enough seats for everyone.  Saying that, if you have grandparents, or other relatives that will need to sit, or use a cane, or walker, etc., I would reserve tables for them.  Taking care of your guests’ comfort is of utmost importance in terms of etiquette. 

Table decorations can be simple or elaborate, depending upon your overall theme or style.  Your reception site might even be able to provide simple centrepieces at no extra cost.  Or you can check out this video on wedding table centrepieces to get some ideas. 

Your wedding plans sound very nice.  People will definitely mingle and will be more inclined to dance since they are already up.  Cocktail receptions are usually simple affairs, so you don’t need elaborate decoration—but you can have it if you want to.  If you want to know more about what works for your wedding site, talk to the people at the reception site.  They will be a wealth of information since they have seen hundreds, if not thousands of events in there location. 

Good luck and enjoy!

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

How Can I Dress Up Our Reception Site? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Shalindra:

Hi! The reception hall we’ve chosen is one that hosts 300 people, at a hotel and has a high roof. It’s rectangular in shape with 10 foot corridors on the lengths, white walls and a dark parquet floor. The walls between the corridors and the hall have arched opennings. I’m trying to think of what kinda lighting we should use to really bring out a sorta fairytale effect in this place. I’m guessing white lights should do the trick. But, how and where should I use them? What’s your opinion? Help!

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

"Fairy" lights help make a fairytale effect.  These are your basic light garlands, which are very effective when entwined with tulle or mesh.  Imagine them outlining the arches—stunning.  Or light garlands entwinned with tulle draping your headtable. 

Check with your reception site to see whether you can attach things to walls or not.  Most places have restrictions.

If you are planning elaborate decorations for your wedding site, I suggest you hire a wedding planner or interior designer for the day to "dress" your reception room.  It will save you the work (you have more important things to do on your wedding day), and ensure you have a great design.  For the few hundred dollars it will cost to hire something, it will be SO much easier.  Remember, whatever goes up, has to come down after the wedding, and someone has to do that also.

Wedding supply companies have trellises, archways, portable fountains and MANY other props to dress a room, so a lot depends upon your budget.  Check them out to see what is available in your area.

Honestly, your room sounds very beautiful already.  I don’t know how much extra stuff you need to do to make it beautiful.  Have you seen the lighting that already exists there?  Have you seen the room dressed for a function, with the lights softly glowing?  It might be fine the way it is.  Ask your reception site for ideas—they have seen MANY functions in their space, knows what works, and can advise you best.

Good luck, and if you have further questions, feel free to email.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

What Fabric Should I Use To Decorate The Church For My Wedding Ceremony? – Ask The Wedding Expert

Question from Shanda:

Hello, I wanted to use organza to drape my aisle in the church. I wanted to drape them off of those tulle stands and the drapery coupled w/every two of the stands so as to not make a huge wall no one dare enter! =) My question is this.. I began to look at organza online and realized that there are many many types. I can get a sheer, solid, silk, satin organza.. I’m utterly confused which one is supposed to be used! The sheer is the cheapest so I would love it if that was the one, but that satin one is at least $10/yd!!  Eek! I wonder, are there any companies out here in the seattle area that I could "rent" it from?! =) Thanks!

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

There are two basic fabrics used for draping at a wedding:  tulle, and sinamay mesh.  You can find them both here under ceremony decorations and accessories.  The weight of these two products are perfect for a wedding, and they also have bows, and other great products to add to your choice.  Both the tulle and mesh will work well for your decorations.

You don’t want silk organza—too soft and silky and you can’t shape it.  The mesh and tulle at the above link have the right stiffness to allow you to drape and shape it for your decor.  As for finding a company in Seattle, I suggest you check your yellow pages for wedding suppliers to see if you can rent some. 

Good luck, and if you have further questions, feel free to ask.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

Would Putting Lights In My Wedding Table Centrepiece Give An Elegant Look? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Lan:

Looking for a wedding reception centerpiece for round tables. Color is a bright green for the bridesmaids. Suggestion: square vase with floating flower and glass pebbles sitting on a green napkin. Could you suggest an interesting base for the vase to sit on even if we use the green napkin?  Would adding a LED light give it an elegant look – over 200 people attending. Thank you.

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Lan, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  Your suggestion sounds very nice.  Water Activated Diamond Lights are a great addition to the vases you describe.  Another common element is to use square mirror tiles on the centre of each table (over a napkin doubling as a table square), with your centrepiece on top of the mirror.  It reflects light and adds sparkle to the table, and many reception sites have these available at no extra charge.  It would look very elegant.

It sounds like you have the centrepieces mastered.  Enjoy your wedding!

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

 

What Can I Use For Wedding Table Centerpieces Instead of Flowers? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Xandy:

We’re having an outdoor wedding on a game farm. There are going to be some horses involved. The reception is going to be in a hall. The colours are brown, purple and green. What can we use for table decorations if we don’t want to use flowers?

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Xandy, and congratulation on your wedding.  It sounds great! 

Reception table centrepieces can include fruit, sand, lights, water, and candles to name the most common elements.  There are some lovely examples of wedding reception centerpieces in this video.  Also, this link takes you to many table centrepieces that you can purchase on-line. 

Some examples of centerpieces would be vases with fruit inside.  Or multiple vases with coloured water with floating candles on top.  Vases with rocks on the bottom, a lovely blossom anchored with the rocks, filled with water topped with a floating tea light can be quite stunning.  The water lights you can find on the last link are very beautiful.  Wedding favours can also be grouped on the table to create a focal point, and this link to wedding favours gives you a very large selection.

These should give you an idea and the two video links will give you even more ideas.  Good luck, and if you have further questions, feel free to ask.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

 

What Should I Use to Drape The Ceiling In My Wedding Decorations? – Ask The Expert Answser

Question from Tamira:

I want to drape the ceiling from the chandelier in the middle of the room out to each corner fo the ceiling. Should I use organza fabric or tulle fabric.  Each piece will be about 30 ft long and 54" wide. I want it to look nice and flowing. What do you reccomend? Thanks so much!

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

reception table.jpgHi Tamira.  Of the two choices, I would recommend the tulle.  Have you considered the sinamay mesh?  Understand that all these fabrics have a stiffness to them that allows you to shape them.  The weight of the fabric in the length you are looking at will allow for a draping effect.  If you are expecting a silky kind of fabric, neither organza or tulle is it.  The nice thing about organza, tulle and sinamay mesh is that because of the stiffness, it holds the drape really well and allows you to create a fullness to the drape that does not work with thinner, silker type fabrics that tend to just bunch up at the gravity point. 

Look under Ceremony Decoration and Accessories and you will see from the pictures how the tulle and sinamay mesh can be bunched and draped.  A silker fabric will have to be fully stretched and held in place to show the width of the drape—or it tends to bunch up. 

In this picture, you can see the dramatic effect that draping can create.  The sparing use of colour dresses up the room in a unique way.

I hope that answers your question.  Feel free to email again.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

How Do A Create A Backdrop For My Wedding? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Elena:

Hello Expert. I will be having my wedding soon and the Hall I rented said no tape or nails on the walls. The walls are at least 20ft high if not higher and off white so I was thinking of using tulle as a back drop my only problem is hanging it. I was thinking of using PVC pipeing almost as a curtain rod with one long pole across the wall with 3-4 supports in between.  Do you think this would work? I was also thinking of just going up about 10ft and using lighting to add a wall wash behind the tulle???

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Elena, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  Your solution sounds like it could work—although you’d have to stabilized it at the base, but you can rent "dividers" that will do will do the same thing without the hassle of building them.  Many rental halls even have them available for a small extra charge—so I suggest you ask them.  Any wedding rental place would have a lot of different props for your wedding decorations that you can choose from to create the backdrop you want. 

Adding light sounds like a very nice touch.  Have you considered lighting underneath the headtable?  It is very beautiful when done right, and it looks like the table is floating on light.

If you have any other questions, feel free to email again.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

 

How Do I Decorate Wedding Reception Tables? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Debbie:

My daughter is getting married in Sa overlooking the sea. Prior to the reception there will be plus /minus 9 wrought iron tables on the lawn. As the mother of the bride my daughter has asked me to dress them.  I have considered hurricane lamps with large candle, vases with LED water activated lighting. Any more ideas would be greatly appreciated. 

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Debbie.  Your ideas sound great so far.  The hurricane lamps are both practical and pretty with the wrought iron—if it is windy out, the candles will remain lit, and the weight of both the lamp and candle will not fall over.  It is a good choice.  Vases with LED water activated lighting is very beautiful—especially in the evening.  Think about how protected or windy the area might be—if the vases are not substantial they could be knocked over with a strong wind.  You could weigh the vases down with rocks in the bottom (if there is room). 

You don’t say whether you are having table linen, but I assume not since the wrought iron by itself is sufficient.  I would suggest dressing the chairs with a simple, large bow on the back.  It will create a festive air to the space.  The bow could be in white, or in the wedding colours, or a combination.  I suggest making the bows out of sinamay mesh or tulle.  They come in a large selection of colours, and can be formed to create a nice full bow.  Just follow the link and choose either ceremony or reception decorations to find the sinamay mesh or tulle

Good luck, and if you have further questions feel free to ask.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

Kinds of Wedding and Bridal Flowers – explained by the Wedding Expert

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Wedding reception decor ideas for the modern bride

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Table Centerpieces for your Wedding

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Wedding Party Colors and How to Choose them

For more wedding planning tips, visit www.thebridalcoach.ca/videos (Planning a Wedding) – This is one of 20 free wedding planning videos made by Angela Fiebelkorn. It’s about Wedding Colors, a topic many brides are always interested in. You will find that wedding colors for your bridal party isn’t something complicated, this short video will esplain the color wheel and relate it to your wedding theme colors.

 

Church wedding decorations – what you need to know

Churches, by themselves, are already beautiful buildings both inside and out.  Old churches with architecture of historical value and excellent acoustics would have completed half the church wedding decorations effort needed for the ceremony.   The most important thing to remember is, first and foremost, to obtain the permission of the vicar before contracting the services of a decorator (or buying the resources if you intend to do it yourself).  As churches are places of worship, permission will usually be granted for minimal décor, with the exclusion of several sections like the altar, side chapel and areas around statues.  Take note of these areas to be excluded from any form of ornamentation as you will have to explain them in detail to your decorator.  In fact, upon exclusion of these sectors, you may find that it may be quite unnecessary to hire one, particularly if the church is not a big one.

Church Wedding DecorationsThe next thing to do is to "measure" the space that is available for decoration.  This is where your wedding guest list comes into importance.  By now, you should be able to have a rough idea of the attendees.  The estimated number of guests will help you to decide just how many pews to decorate and which parts of the church you will wish to make accessible to them.  Some couples prefer a cozy ceremony and thus, will block off the second half or up to two thirds of the church.  Methods of blocking off the sections are varied.  Some decorators use white or colored (depending on the theme of the wedding) bows may be used to indicate pews to be used to seat guests.  Others make garlands of flowers or buy a delicate string of white or silver tinsel to tie along the aisle to block the entrance to blocked-off pews.  Whatever you use to block off these sections, make sure they are not misleading to your guests so they will not have to bear the embarrassment of sitting in the "wrong" seats.

Marking the pews is optional but a good idea to do at your wedding – depending on how many VIPs you will be inviting.  Decorating the pews with different colored bows, ribbons, lace or flowers is one way of ensuring that the correct guests are seated where they should be.  Some groups of segregation are Family (immediate) and Close Friends (first few pews), followed by Relatives, Colleagues and Others with the optional VIP pew somewhere between Immediate Family and Relatives. 

Having ushers to seat your guests would be ideal as long as they themselves are clear on the seating arrangements.

The choice of flowers used for decoration may be themed – some decorators use the same kind flowers that the bride and her entourage will be carrying, albeit in different colors (roses, carnations, orchids) while others use the same main color but in a myriad of flowers (yellow, red, pink).  And even others will use just about every single flower there is available at the florist, creating a slightly looser, more bohemian look to the event.

Main areas for decoration are the entrance, mid way through the aisle and the altar.  While the altar is usually an off-limits area, a floral arrangement adorned in lace is usually allowed.  And as most of your wedding photographs and footage will include the altar, it will be wise to ensure that the altar boasts of a big floral arrangement that is as eye-catching as it is awesome.  As for the entrance, an arch full of flowers, ribbons and balloons may be used with some decorators even inscribing phrases of love like "Me & You" or "Love" on it.  Halfway up the aisle, a smaller arch can be erected similarly decorated but on a more muted scale.  The number of arches to have along the aisle is your choice – just remember, more arches mean more decorations and a bigger budget.

If you are having flower girls carrying baskets of flower petals, be sure to have those baskets decorated with a little bow or lace matching to the rest of the materials used in the ceremony.

Other areas to decorate may include the registration table where the couple will be signing their marriage certificates.  Some churches will do this after the ceremony in which case, decorations may not be necessary.  Otherwise, a basket of "happy" flowers like lilies and daisies will suffice.

No matter what the décor, it is best to choose the type of décor that will match the church’s architecture and culture.  An ultra-conservative congregation, for example, may find arches constructed along the aisle a little too overwhelming.  Whichever your choice, remember that every décor works best when it blends in with its surroundings.

Do Wedding Colours of Gold and Lilac Go Together? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Arnel:

I picked out a light gold wedding dress and I really can’t find what would gol with it. Would a lavender or lilac color go with gold?

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  Your colour choices sound beautiful, and I think they will go very well together. 

Gold can have a yellow undertone, or a brown undertone.  A gold with a yellowish undertone would work beautifully with lavender or lilac.   I took a quick look for gold wedding favours and lavender wedding favours and found some beautiful ones.  Check them out.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

How Do I Use My Wedding Colours To Decorate A Room? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Shea:

Hey Angela! I have a pretty good idea of the colors I want for my reception I’m just having a tough time figuring out how and where to use each of them.  The colors are brown, cranberry red, and a deep orange. Thanks!

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  The colours you have chosen will look very beautiful.  The colours you are using should be showcased in some way on every table.  You have a number of table options: 

1.  white tablecloths and coloured napkins

2.  white tablecloths and coloured table runners/squares

3.  wedding favours in your colour(s)

4.  flowers or a centrepiece that showcase your colours. If you are using flowers, you might want ribbon in your wedding colours to accent the arrangement.

By using tulle or sinamay mesh in your colours, you can create draping on the head table, cake table, and table where the guest book will be put.  The guest book table gives you another opportunity to highlight your colours again through flowers, or some type of focal point.  Another way to use tulle or mesh is to "disguise" any unsightly objects in your reception room—like the sound system, podium, etc.

If you have an archway, or portable fountain, or an ice sculpture, or any other objects in your reception room, tulle/mesh with a light garland not only lets you accent your colours, but adds some sparkle to the decor. 

When using any of these suggestions, you have the choice of combining the colours each time, using a different colour each time, or doing a combination of the two.  For example, you might choose to have brown napkins at one table, red napkins at another table and orange napkins at another table.  If you go this route, you will want to bring the other two colours into the table through the runners/squares (say one runner in each colour), or through a strong statement of ribbon on your flower arrangement (not to mention the flower colours themselves). 

I personally like the use of ribbon as it lets you combine your colours, and ribbon is inexpensive.  You can create little bows to scatter on a table, or use larger ribbon and create bows to accent a floral arrangement, or use on a table instead of draping. 

Most reception sites have table skirting, so using skirting in a predominant colour can also keep your colours front and centre.   Remember, the colours you are using do not need to "match" exactly, but they should be a shade of that colour with the same undertone so it looks put together. 

If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask.

Angela

 

 

How Do We Have A Wedding Without Attendants? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Christine:

Hi, My boyfriend and I have been talking about marriage but he is really hung up on the wedding itself.  He does not want to have attendants. I’m trying to consider this with an open mind. However, I have several concerns, one of which is how our photos will look with close friends who won’t match.  Another is how to bring color to the wedding.  There are other issues, but if you could help me with these I would be grateful.

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Christine.  When getting married, you need to have witnesses to sign the marriage license.  This is where the term "stand up for" comes from.  The Maid of Honour and the Best Man "stand up for" you and witness the legality of your marriage.  No matter where or how you get married, you will need someone to witness the marriage.  Usually people choose their closest, best friend for the MOH and Best Man to do this task. When you say he does not want attendants, does that include the MOH and Best Man? 

The Best Man and Groomsmen are traditionally responsible for the "stag party" as well as decorating the wedding cars. They do things like pick up and return the tuxedos and other rentals before and after the wedding so the bride and groom can concentrate on the wedding preparations, and later go on their honeymoon without incurring extra penalties and rental charges.

The MOH is responsible for organizing the bridal shower, and along with the bridesmaids and groomsmen, for decorating the reception space.  Having attendants is not just about having someone for the pictures.  They help the bride and groom with all the wedding preparations, as well as things after the wedding.  If your fiance understood this better, he might reconsider.  Planning a wedding is a huge task with a lot of details to decide upon, and takes time to accomplish.  The help of the bridal party is instrumental in making the whole process a fun time, instead of a lot of work.

Saying all that, it is possible to have a small, intimate wedding with just a few people and doing everything yourself.  Another option is to have a private wedding ceremony and then invite everyone to the reception. 

As for colour, you can incorporate colour through your flowers, and ceremony and reception decorations.  This includes napkins, mesh/tulle, flowers, wedding favours, and centrepieces to name the main ways. 

I hope this answers your concerns.  If you have any further questions, please feel free to email again.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

 

 

Castle Cake Toppers

A fairy theme wedding must use a great deal of white, frothy and everywhere from the wedding dress and church décor, to the floral arrangements and table settings at the wedding reception. A single color can be used as an accent as long as that color is used with care. Stay away from deep, dark colors or busy patterns. Instead, look for an accent color that is pale, pastel, rich or muted and use it sparingly. Even the floral arrangement can be all white and believe it or not, will look stunning white on white against a snowy white silk wedding dress. The greenery in the flowers will be enough to help the bridal bouquet pop off the gown and not be bland or boring. Same is true for bridesmaid dresses and flowers – stick to one accent color to achieve the perfect Cinderella wedding theme.

14010NA-M.JPGAside from oodles of white, use lots of glistening crystal, refined silver and gleaming glass. These are all elements, like Cinderella’s slipper that will help you pull off the perfect fairytale wedding day. If you look hard enough, there are companies out there that rent stage coaches for wedding days and this is the perfect final touch to your Cinderella theme wedding. Choosing the right décor and accessories for your fairy theme wedding, from table place card holders and candle holders, to cake serving sets and fairy castle cake toppers will make your story have a very happy ending.

Is Burgundy and Peach Good Wedding Colours? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Kate:

Can I combine burgundy and peach?  Urgently need your advice on this matter.

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Kate, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  Burgundy and peach can work together as long as they are of the same saturation or tonal quality.  They both need to have the same undertone of colour, and they would work.

The Wedding Colour Choices Made Easy might be helpful to you.  Check out these wedding favours and decorations that can enhance you colour choices in your wedding decor. 

How Do I Add A Mexican Touch To Our Wedding Decorations? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Mary Lou:

My daughter’s wedding will be in June, 2009. My family is Latino/Mexican.  Her husband to be has strong southern roots (Tennessee). They want to incorporate both cultures. The wedding planner advises against the cateror doing Mexican cuisine (it wouldn’t be authentic) the familia would not like that at all. So, we have decided on the reception theme and decorations to have a Mexican touch. Please advise. No pinatas, her colors are purple, orange and green. Thanks, Mother-of-the-bride

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi, and congratulations on the upcoming wedding in your family.  Do you have any family wedding traditions that can be incorporated into the wedding ceremony or reception?  Sometimes families have traditions that are passed down through the generations.  For example, in my family it is tradition to have the plant myrtle at each table to symbolize a happy and fertile marriage.  Maybe you have a family heirloom that you would like to display at the wedding, say on the guest book table. 

The Mexican/Latino theme can be shown in many ways.  Pottery, instead of a vase, on each guest table holding flowers is one idea.  Think of how you can incorporate something uniquely Mexican into the table centrepiece decorations.  Another place to make a statement could be the table that holds the guest book, or the wedding cake.  You want to create one or two specific places to honour the culture without it overwhelming the overall decor. 

You might consider using wedding favours to bring in the Mexico/Latino touch to the wedding.  The Hot Pepper magnets are a great choice, and you can find many other wedding favours to choose from. 

The colours that she has chosen are definitely of a Mexican/Latino theme, and might be statement enough with just small touches here and there in the decor. These are just a few ideas.  If you have any other questions, please feel free to email again. 

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

What Colours Go With Mauve For My Wedding? -Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Zita:

Dear Angela, I am a Ghanaian girl and my wedding is just around the corner. I would like the know what other two colours  that I can combine with a mauve colour to get a nice wedding colours. Please help me! 

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Zita, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  You have a number of choices with mauve: 1) you can go with different shades of mauve—from dark to light;  2) you can go with purple and pink in the same colour tones; 3) you can go with yellow in the same colour tones; 4) you can go with light blue and burnt orange if you wanted bolder colours; or 5) you can go with neutral colours like whites, beige/browns, and grey/blacks. 

You might enjoy looking through Wedding Colour Choices Made Easy which is available here.   It will help you choose colours for your wedding.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

Candle Favours Selections are amazing nowadays

Candle Wedding FavoursThere are huge selections of candle favours nowadays. Candles can come in all shapes. Most candles are shaped like pears with a matching lemon scent that smells refreshing, and they come with an attractive votive. Some are heart shaped with the smell of roses or lavender. These candles often come prettily packaged in elegant transparent plastic boxes. There are some candles decorated with stones; they appear stylish and chic.

You can also present your guests with a box of wine candles with a bottle of wine as compliments to them. Or, you have the option of giving them coffee scented candles in mini ceramic coffee cups. These coffee candles are perfect to be placed in a coffee table.

Scented candle wedding favours also come in small candle jars. They look convenient and their scent lasts longer than the ones exposed. Some candles are given away to guests in a colorful organza bag. These bags are also used to preserve the scents of these candles.

Wedding Colour Choices Made Easy!

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This 10 page document, written by our Bridal Expert, Angela Fiebelkorn, explains the basic principles of using a colour wheel to figure out what colours go together. 

 Explore Tonal Colour Schemes, Complementary Colour Schemes, Harmonious Colour Schemes, and Triadic Colour Schemes, as well as the use of neutrals and texture in design.  Filled with pictures to explain each concept as they are presented, this handy document is a great primer to design and decor planning.  Using these principles will give you the knowledge and confidence to make choosing your wedding colours an easy task.

 Remember, we are always available on the blog to answer your personal wedding planning questions. 

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How Do I Pick A Wedding Reception Theme? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Quiana:

Good Morning.  I just got married on january 12, 2009 and I wanted to know if you could help me on picking a reception theme.  If you could tell me some popular ones.  Thank You for your time.

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Quiana.  Congratulations on your wedding!  If you scroll down this page, you will find a list of popular wedding themes in the right hand column.  You can choose a seasonal theme (spring, summer, etc.) or a colour theme.  These are the most popular and are easiest on the planning and decorations.  If you view these wedding favours, you will find a lot to choose from, and any one of them can be a theme for you.

A princess or fairy tale theme is very popular, as is the calla lily theme.  Make sure you view the wedding decorations to get ideas on how to incorporate the decorations into your chosen theme.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert